Mr. and Mrs. Tucker (30 years)

James and Julia Tucker met in college at Oklahoma State University through mutual friends. Every time Julia called James, his roommate would read portions from the book entitled "Everything You Wanted to Know About Sex But Was Afraid to Ask". LOL!! James was very shy. Julia was not. They went on their first date in September and shared their first kiss on Valentine's Day. Julia was his first girlfriend and James is her last love.

*James and Julia married on August 3, 1985*

ª    What qualities did you see in this person that made you want to marry him/her? 

I knew I could trust him. He was very shy and sincere. Most of all l loved that he was a country boy!

ª    How do you keep the romance going? What are some things that you enjoy doing as a couple? 

We have had some hard lessons as a couple. We have learned to put each other first, always be respectful, and enjoy the simple things. We like spending time together on the porch swing, gardening, and taking walks together.

ª    What is your favorite part of marriage?

Having a life partner and having someone who understands me.

ª    What is the most important aspect in a marriage to make it successful?

Keeping God in the relationship, trust, and mutual respect.

ª    Life often throws many curveballs, and those that make it through those tough times stay together. How have you dealt with stressful times that arise? 

We have had many bumps in the road, and we have had to learn to give it all to God. Nothing is ever too big for him to deal with.

ª    Marriage isn't always a cakewalk. What advice can you offer newly engaged couples when disagreements occur? 

Pray! Try to see the other person's side, and never go to sleep mad.

ª    What do you see as the strengths of your marriage?

Our faith in God, trust, and mutual respect.

ª    James, what do you LOVE about Julia?

She is caring and compassionate about our relationship, our children and others. 

ª    Julia, what do you LOVE about James? 

I love that he is intelligent, down to earth, and a sweetheart. He very rarely gets mad and he does his best to make me happy.

ª    What advice would you give newlyweds?

Practice your faith in God together. Know that your spouse cannot meet your every need. Talk things out until you reach a mutual agreement. Always keep each other first.

ª    What song best describes your marriage? 

Alan Jackson's "Remember When"