Brenda & E.J. Hagar has known each other for over 37 years. She had a high school crush on him and he wasn't interested.Two months after graduation, Brenda found out that E.J had broken up with his girlfriend so she seized the opportunity to reconnect by writing him a letter (he was a member of the USAF and stationed in Japan). That was the original You’ve Got Mail. He came home from Japan in July 1979 and they were married on October 27, 1979. No formal courtship– just a romance through the mail. Married for 34 years, Brenda and E.J shares a few words of wisdom.
ªBrenda, what do you love about E.J? He is patient, kind, and faithful.
ªE. J, what do you love about Brenda? Everything!! She is my best friend, lover, and soul mate. She is compassionate and giving. She is good in so many ways. That's why I love her.©
ªHow do you keep the romance going? It is a priority f…